YOU MUST NOT MARRY ME!!!

An elderly woman entered a bus and mistakenly stepped on a young lady's foot. Knowing her wrong, the elderly woman apologized, but the young lady caught fire. She insulted the elderly woman from that time till the elderly woman got to her destination; she called the elderly woman all sorts of names using different abusive words to tell the woman's history. All passengers in the bus pleaded on behalf of the elderly woman, yet she refused petting. Her rage's inferno was unstoppable by consolidations from whoever it maybe, she wanted to make her point for all to know the elderly woman must have been blind and irrationally inconsiderate to have stepped on her 'golden foot'. Her word missiles stopped flying when the woman came down, some of the passengers felt she should have not been too audacious with the insulting words used against the woman, instead of thinking about it, she yelled at them like a wounded Lion, all left her to fight with the air till she got down at her destination, because she was a winner at proving her point that the elderly woman must have been out of her to have stepped on her. 'What a Lady' everyone wondered after she got down.

TWO WEEKS LATER
The lady was to visit her mother-in-law to be for the first time with her fiance. She bought beverages and different things to greet her would be mother-in-law just as many ladies do to win mother-in-law's approval (*Laffs/winks*). On getting to her would be mother-in-law's apartment, she was told to wait in the living room by her hubby while he went inside to call his sweet mother to welcome their 'August Visitor'.

Mama was hasty to meet her Would be daughter-in-law and coming hurriedly to the living room with praise chants blasting from her Medulla's Poetic Resource, the way most cultured mothers do in Nigeria. She got to the living room and like it always happen in Nollyhood movies when surprises happen in some scenes, her pitch went down as she looked closely at the young lady sitting on her couch to confirm her thoughts. The young lady also surprised recognized mama and faces down. Not loving her role in this movie that can not be re-casted, tears  rolled down her eyes. The only person confused was the guy who doesn't know the title to give the movie he was watching. The mother looked at her Son, then looked at the lady and finally turned to his son and said
"Son, you know I luv you"
Son "Yes Ma"
Mother "You can not marry this lady, this lady is not your wife"
with anger, the guy questioned his mother's absolute firmness. Before the situation got out of hands, the lady herself resolved the matter. She told the guy she'll have to leave because she understands his mother's concern.She left. The mother then narrated her ordeal with his son. The lady happened to be the one who insulted the woman who had been the elderly woman in the bus with the young lady two weeks before their meeting. It was unfortunate, but the young guy had to let go knowing the effect on her mother and being confirmed by the lady to him later. The lady said in tears while telling a counselor one of the reasons she was not married as at the time she was narrating her story "I missed the opportunity to marry a good man for me because of my bad mouth"

So sad. This is how many have lost the opportunity to get married. Ladies need to understand this that their attitude is key in keeping their relationship. Many concentrate more on a lady's character than the guy because it is generally believed that the lady should be the home maker. How do you want to build your home if your character is faulty. To all ladies out there. Build virtues in you that are irresistible and you will be the most wanted for marriage. with the help of God and positive attitude, you are on your way to enjoying the beautiful relationship you've been dreaming of. When you employ good character (not just because you want to get married, but for a lovable and fulfilling lifestyle), all you are saying is "YOU MUST MARRY ME" but when your character is sour all you are telling us is "YOU MUST NOT MARRY ME"

I declare to every woman reading this today "You relationship shall  not be bitter in Jesus name, the Lord shall give you wisdom to handle you relationship the best way that will beautify your life and bring glory to God" please take wisdom from Proverbs 31v30......LOL